weekend

I’m really trying to figure out this “posting more often” thing. It’s been over two months since my last one. Sorry about that. Here’s a little view of our weekend.

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Jonah loves to help us check out at the grocery store.

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We had a family dinner on Saturday night. Jonah and daddy played some games on daddy’s phone.

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We went last weekend to get the special Autism Speaks Build-a-Bear for Jonah. Sometimes he grabs it on the way to the changing table and hugs it while he gets his diaper changed. Today I asked him to pose with his bear after one of these times. ;)

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Today we went to Aaron’s dad and step-mom’s house so Aaron could help with some computer stuff. We had a pretty rough day overall, but Jonah was pretty good while we were there.

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Aaron and his dad hard at work.

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Jonah trying on grandma’s hat.

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Jonah vs. Food (or, our trip to Arkansas Children’s Hospital)

I saw an acquaintance several weeks ago who said, “You haven’t been posting in your blog!” I know, I know. I think I am really not meant to be a “blogger”. I do like to keep people informed, but blogging just doesn’t come very naturally to me. By the end of the day, when I would have time to write a post, I’m just too worn out.

However, today was important enough to push through the worn-outness and just do it.

Today we traveled 3 hours away to Arkansas Children’s Hospital in Little Rock. We are doing everything we can to try and figure out why Jonah doesn’t eat. Our first thought was to rule out any gut issues or allergens.

Jonah at one of our gas station stops on the way to LR.

Jonah at one of our gas station stops on the way to LR.

Jonah had an ultrasound to look for any blockages or anything else that might be causing him pain. We were completely blown away by how well he did. We thought we were going to have to hold him down, but he tolerated it so well. He was a little unsure at first when we had him lay on the bed, and especially when he saw the weird stuff they were going to put on his stomach. But he relaxed and laid very still while daddy held his hand and I stayed down at his feet. After the tech was done with his stomach, she needed to go through his back, as well. He’s not super comfortable laying on his stomach, but with some encouragement he flipped over and watched his insides up on the screen. I’d say the whole thing took 15-20 minutes, and he was just perfect the whole time. The worst part was after the ultrasound when the tech went to make sure the doctor didn’t need any more images, and Jonah no longer wanted to stay in the room. We had to corral him a little bit, but that’s nothing we’re not used to. :)

Next, we got to go wait in another waiting room for Jonah’s endoscopy. The endoscopy was to make sure his stomach looked okay, and to take a biopsy to check for allergens (which would include Celiac’s).

Waiting room fun.

Waiting room fun. (photo by Aaron)

Jonah does waiting pretty well when there’s a window to look out. When we went back to the room, we were informed about the procedure. Every single person who was going to be a part of the procedure came in to talk to us one at a time, to ask if we had any questions, etc. This really put us at ease (as much as possible, anyway). I have to say that everyone we interacted with was really great and genuinely seemed to care. One very southern nurse hilariously kept calling Jonah a “precious bundle of joy” and other similar things.

Most of our best pictures came from our wait in this room:

Jonah's yellow "pajamas".

Jonah’s yellow “pajamas” (photo by Aaron).

Saying "cheese"!

Saying “cheese”!

A nice moment between Jonah and me. (photo by Aaron)

A nice moment between Jonah and me. (photo by Aaron)

Jonah and daddy

Jonah and daddy

While we were in this room, Jonah got a needle-less shot (I still don’t understand what that means) of some “goofy juice”, which sedated him just enough to relax and not mind when we were separated from him. In those last couple of pictures, Jonah had already gotten the shot and was starting to relax.

When it was time for him to go back, we each got to give Jonah a kiss, but he was really more interested in moving Piglet back and forth between the bars of the bed. I bet it looked pretty silly to him at that point. Jonah got Piglet from his Uncle Kris when he was just a couple months old. Several of the nurses commented on how “well-loved” Piglet looked. :) I was grateful that they let Piglet go back for the procedure with Jonah, since it is so familiar to him.

The most beautiful husband in all the land.

The most beautiful husband in all the land.

I want to take a second to be cheesy and thank my husband for being so awesome today. We always say that when hard stuff like this happens, one of us is freaking out, so the other just HAS to be the strong one. I’m sure that’s how it is for most couples. Today, Aaron was the strong one. When we got back to the waiting room after Jonah went back for his procedure, I got really overwhelmed and emotional and couldn’t help but cry. Luckily, I was able to calm myself fairly quickly, but he was strong then and all day long, because he knew I was really worried about how things would go. He is pretty great.

We were able to go back and see Jonah just before he started waking up. This was probably the worst part of the whole thing. He seemed really confused when he woke up and REALLY wanted all the wires and stuff off of him. He was really fussy until we left and had been driving for a bit, but eventually calmed down. In fact, during our 3-hour car ride back home, he went from fussing to happy and making all sorts of vocalizations in the back seat. We were really surprised he didn’t sleep any on the way home. We got to go have dinner with grandma and grandpa before we finally went home. During dinner, he was fantastic. He was already back to his goofy old self.

What we found out so far is that he does have some irritation on his stomach called Gastritis. The doctor said that it definitely would have been causing him some pain, and that this could be part of what is keeping him from eating, but probably not all of it. There are probably some sensory issues keeping him from eating. We won’t know about the results of the biopsy (allergens, etc.) for a couple of weeks. She gave us a RX for the Gastritis, but getting him to take the melt-in-his-mouth pill is going to be a whole other battle…

The Ozarks.

The Ozarks.

On the way home I got this penny pressed at a gas station. I hadn’t done one of these penny things in a long time, and kind of just wanted something to commemorate the trip, as odd as that might sound. It was a really big day for Jonah, and for all of us. He did amazingly well, and continues to show us how strong and brave he is. We are more proud of him than I can even explain.

the craziest thing that’s ever happened to me

We were eating at Chili’s this evening with my parents after Jonah was at their house for the day. We were finishing up, when a guy walks by, says, “Merry Christmas” as he drops an envelope in front of me, and walks away. We all looked at each other for a couple seconds, trying to figure out if we knew the guy, or what.

He didn’t look back once, just left the building quickly. I opened the envelope, which said “Merry Christmas” on the outside, and found a Christmas card. You won’t believe what I found when I opened it.

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ONE. THOUSAND. DOLLARS.

I don’t even know what else to say. A complete stranger gave us a thousand dollars. We looked around for him and saw him driving away, still not looking back. This guy just wanted to do something nice for someone he didn’t know. And we were so confused about what was happening that we didn’t even get to thank him. I wish I could tell him that, because of his generosity, I can now get an eye exam and a new pair of glasses, which I have needed for months because mine are broken and I keep having to super glue them back together. We can both afford to get the oil changed in our cars, which we had been putting off. And maybe we can do something nice when my brother comes in to town in a couple of days.

We also wanted to do something nice for someone else. We went to both Wal-Mart and the mall looking for an Angel Tree, but I guess it’s too close to Christmas and they’ve already packed everything up and whatnot. That’s okay, it just gives us more time to think of something nice we can do.

Merry Christmas, indeed.

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doctor

Jonah used to be what we would call “really picky” about food. He would eat bananas, Whale crackers, and yogurt (Great Value vanilla only). This was several months ago. He then got to where he would only eat the yogurt.

As of a week or so ago? He cut out the yogurt. Luckily, he’s pretty open to liquids, so he drinks Carnation Breakfast Essentials in whole milk, and juice. We were getting him Naked Juice, but it got too expensive, so we switched to V8 Fusion.

So, since he’s been on a liquid diet for the past week, we’ve been worried. The Carnation and the juice do have a lot of good nutrients in them, but we didn’t know if they were sufficient.

We took Jonah to the doctor yesterday to get her opinion. We ended up having to wait about an hour, and Jonah was fabulous. I mean, he did get impatient and it was hard to keep him occupied and happy — until we found out that he loved looking out the window.

This window pretty much saved our sanity (even though it made me nervous, because, hello four story drop!).

Anyway, he held still while his blood pressure was taken, he stood on the scale without wiggling around, he let the doctor put the stethoscope under his shirt and listen; he was the best he’s ever been at a doctor appointment. We were so pleasantly surprised by him.

In the end, his doctor said that he is healthy, his height and weight are proportional, and she rarely sees toddlers (even with Autism) who don’t end up starting to eat fairly normally at some point. Obviously there are exceptions, and if he turned out to be one of those exceptions, there’s a possibility he might have to get a G-Tube in the future, but she didn’t seem to think that was likely with him.

And then she said something that she really didn’t have to say, but I’m so glad she did. She said that we’ve done a really great job with all of this food stuff. She said that it’s because we are so proactive that he’s doing as well as he is, despite not eating solid foods, that there are parents who would let it get way worse before thinking of coming in.

And when you’ve been feeling pretty hopeless and out of control of how things have been going lately? That’s exactly what you need to hear.

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markers

Unfortunately, we were all sick on and off over the long Thanksgiving weekend. However, that didn’t stop me from getting a few things done, like…getting presents wrapped and putting up the xmas tree!

(I didn’t put the presents under the tree because I figured that with 5 animals, they’d be safer tucked into the entertainment center.)

We also bought a couple of super cheap (25 cents and 50 cents after a 50% discount) wooden ornaments from Hobby Lobby, and had Jonah color them.

Jonah is fairly new to coloring with markers, but they’ve been working on it in OT and I’m really proud of how well he’s doing. He’s gotten way more tolerant of the markers getting on his skin than he was initially.

And the ornaments turned out really cute. :)

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thankful

I made this at work. I know you’re impressed.

I am thankful for these guys:

…for fall and cooler weather:

…for coffee:

…for new exciting opportunities for Jonah:


(more about this later…)

…Jonah’s growing vocabulary and general happiness:

And for many other things that I don’t have photos for, including a promotion at work that goes into effect on Monday, my job in general and all the awesome people I get to see there every day, and Jonah’s therapists and Kindermusik teacher. I am also grateful that Jonah felt way better today after having a 24-hour bug yesterday (I got thrown up on! Twice!), which meant we were able to have Thanksgiving lunch at my parents’ house today.

This mug from my parents’ house sums it up nicely:

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Sunday

We had a pretty great day.

We went to feed some ducks and geese at the park. Jonah was a little unsure and didn’t want to leave our laps, but we could tell he had a great time and enjoyed watching the ducks.

Then we came home and Jonah practiced putting daddy’s keys in the front door…

Then we had some fun reading time…

Then we went and visited Grandma and Grandpa (Aaron’s dad and step-mom). Jonah wowed them with his puzzle skills…

All in all, a pretty great day!

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“I can do it!”

My work day was pretty crappy and stressful today (luckily this does not reflect a typical work day!). However, Aaron sent me this video towards the end of the day, and it made me laugh so hard.

You see, Jonah is in an independent stage when it comes to his toys. I figure that he thinks he knows the correct way to do stuff, so we just don’t need to bother. This video shows what happens when Aaron tries to help Jonah with a puzzle.

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Aaron gets banished into another room! Jonah is definitely in the “I can do it! I don’t need help!” stage right now with a lot of stuff. I love it so much.

By the way, sorry for the lack of posts. I accidentally washed my phone (it was in my jeans pocket) a couple weeks ago, and that has slowed the posts because A) I lost some photos I had planned on using in blog posts, and B) it has just generally bummed me out. Luckily, we had a backup phone (the one we’ve let Jonah use for games and stuff). I do have some stuff to talk about, so hopefully I will be in the mood to write some posts this weekend!

3 new words

Jonah has started saying three new words in the past week or so! This is huge for him. None of the words are 100% clear, but it doesn’t matter. :) Well, I’ll just let you hear for yourself:

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Aaron said Jonah started saying “baby” after he was being changed at therapy and pointed to the pictures next to the changing table instructions. Aaron said, “Yeah, that’s a baby.” And Jonah repeated it!

He says “team” because of Wonder Pets. “What’s gonna work? Teamwork!”

And he says hot because of the song “Peas Porridge Hot” that they’ve been doing in Kindermusik.

So exciting!

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InstaFriday

My week in Instagram (okay, really it’s mostly Hipstamatic) photos:

That’s my brother with Jonah in the last picture. He and some friends are in town from Chicago this weekend, so we got to have dinner tonight. :)

Jonah has a birthday party to attend tomorrow, so hopefully I will have some good pictures from that. And Jonah’s birthday party is a week from tomorrow, if it doesn’t rain (it’s going to be outdoors)! Right now it says it’s a 50% chance, but I know how much that can change over the course of a week, so I’m going to try not to worry about it for the time being.

life rearranged

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